Today's youth. A guest in his own house

Written by: Public Writer

Protect your children from becoming disabled.

Disability!!

Which is the story of every home.

Boy or Girl: Has stepped into the limits of youth, enviable health, but lives like a special person at home.

Will wake up in the morning, leave the bed unmade, mother will come and fix it.

They will change the clothes, they will leave them where they took them off or they will keep them in a corner. Mother will come, pick up, wash, iron and put back in order in their closet.

Food should be ready for them. They have no responsibility before eating or after eating. Picking up plates or putting glasses back: Absolutely not. Mother will come and do all these things.

Go to school, college or university, return back to sleep, have fun on Snapchat, WhatsApp or Tik Tok, spend time on Twitter, Instagram or watch your favorite serial dramas. Food will be ordered sitting there. It will be their job to just reach for a morsel or swallow it. Thanks to him for that too. Because then they have to go back to the TV or the laptop or the iPad again.

And sometimes they even take the pleasure of sitting with other members of the household in their spare time. But what is the reason that during this time I take my eyes off the screen of my mobile phone? Because they want to be close to their loved ones who have just commented, uploaded a precious status or sent a picture. It is their first duty to appease them by commenting immediately.

And these gentlemen: I do not fulfill any responsibility in the house, even if it is very small. They get up after messing up their place, they get angry if they don't like the food, if they see something that can be repaired or something that can be changed in the house, they go away. Because this responsibility belongs to the father. And cleanliness or order is the mother's responsibility.

The scene ended.

Many times this is happening all around us or in our own homes and have thought very carefully that well we have completely succeeded in creating a handicapped generation. Yes A disabled generation.

And if you look at the behavior of the prepared generation that we have now, it seems that they are guests in this house. No one to cooperate, no one to help in any work, no one to take responsibility for their surroundings: from primary school to their college university, but even after getting a job.

They live as guests in their parents' house.

They don't understand any responsibility except to collect pocket money or get driving license on time.

And both parents are burdened with household responsibilities no matter how old they get and how weak they get. Because they themselves do not want their children to suffer.

Taking responsibility for work and understanding one's responsibilities is a training that is sown and nurtured in the heart of the child. It is not like growing mustard on one's hand. Nor is it such a simple issue that taking responsibility and responsibility is automatically felt after marriage. Because even after marriage they will stick to the same culture that they have learned and adopted from their parents' house. What kind of in-laws and what kind of old house: Only what will be learned will work. And what has been learned: Disability, reliance on others and trust.

And after that, this generation will never again be able to rely on themselves to build a home or family, take responsibility for a wife and children.

Because you have laid their foundation like this.

And if your answer is yes, how are the results?

• If mothers and fathers do not raise children to take responsibility for their homes, will the whole world teach them?
• Remember that the lessons of the world will be more shocking, cruel, less and more cruel than you expect.
• Do not make your son or daughter a guest in your home.